How To Influence Greater “Herd Humility”

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Last weekend I attended a workshop presented by Rev. Dr. Darrell Zimmerman of Grace Place Wellness. He shared the story of a conversation in which one woman meant to say, “herd immunity” and instead said “herd humility.” What a concept as it relates to vocation!

I ascribe humility to servant leadership which can also be referred to as transformational leadership. In fact, one of the core values of Innovative Leadership Solutions, is serve to lead and lead to serve. The paragraph below elaborates on this value.

We believe everyone is called to both lead and serve in unique and diverse ways. This involves both giving and receiving motivated by a heart for service, genuine care for others, and fulfilling a greater purpose. These leaders bring out the best in others! We champion with you and for you in growing your leadership capacities so that your influence transforms the lives of others and leaves a legacy of stewardship and service.

It’s other-serving rather than self-serving. It’s about serving a purpose that is greater than ourselves. The result? Transformational leadership and not transactional leadership. The first type of leadership involves a heart for others whereas the second type of leadership uses others as a means to an end. In terms of legacy, which type of leadership lives on? Transformational, of course.

Imagine the kind of transformational impact on the billions of people all over the world with greater “herd humility.” Imagine leaders bringing out the best in others. Imagine colleagues collaborating with one another for the sake of the mission. Imagine people relating to one another out of genuine care and concern for others. The reality is that we are called to lead and serve accordingly.

Who can be credited with the start of “herd humility?” The Sunday School answer…Jesus! Jesus was the Son of God, a King. If anyone had the right to be served, it was Him. However, He humbled Himself to become man and live among us. Everything that He did, was serving the will of His Father for the present needs and eternal spiritual benefit of others. He paid the ultimate sacrifice for our sins, though He was without sin, by dying on the cross and rising in victory. As a result, through Him, all who believe may have eternal life.

Throughout His life, Jesus demonstrated the posture of humility in service to God and for His purposes. Specifically in John 13, Jesus washed the disciples’ feet and in doing so, encouraged this same posture of humility in service to God and for His purposes. Hence, the start of “herd humility” began to spread and world has never been the same since! Yet, there is still more serving to be done!

What can you do to stay grounded in the posture of humility and influence greater “herd humility?” Rev. Dr. Zimmerman showed us a picture of a “sheep-herd.” You are called in your vocation to serve as a “shepherd,” to lead, serve, and care for others. At the same time, Jesus is The Good Shepherd, and you are one of His sheep nestled ever so gently in His arms. Psalm 23 beautifully describes God’s great love and care for you! You can find rest and restoration in God.

And, influencing greater “herd humility” is really about spreading JOY because true JOY is of God!

In order to spread JOY, you must first receive JOY in your life!

  • Reach out to Jesus and let Him care for you and give yourself permission to care for yourself so that you can better serve and lead others.

  • Connect with others daily in mutually beneficial ways to meet each other’s relational needs.

  • Abide in Him daily to ground yourself in the posture of humility in service to God and for His purposes.

  • Thank and praise God for the blessings in your life.

Now, go and influence greater “herd humility!”

Follow-Up: My Thanksgiving Blessings

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In last week’s article, Are You Celebrating Your Dependence and Interdependence this Thanksgiving?, I invited you to shift your focus in regards to your blessings on this day. Below was the invitation…

I encourage you to be intentional about giving thanks for the blessings in your life that specifically identify God and others as the source.

However, if you want to take this to the next level, identify how you use your gifts that God has given you to be a blessing to Him and others that requires you to step out in faith. This requires courage to get out of your comfort zone to respond to a specific need God invites you to meet. And it’s all for His glory!

Will you do me a favor? Please comment how you celebrated your dependence and interdependence this Thanksgiving.

I promised to follow-up by sharing my thanksgivings to you. So, here they are!

God

  • Grateful for God’s provision during my time in Hawaii.

  • Grateful for health, spiritual growth, and the opportunity to enjoy His creation in Hawaii.

  • Grateful for God’s guidance in developing His ideas for my business (i.e., The IMPACT Journey and Giants & Stones) and help in the writing I have undertaken this year.

Others

  • Grateful for my friend that lives on the island that has helped me assimilate and become familiar with island life.

  • Grateful for my friends that invited me over for Thanksgiving.

  • Grateful for the support and encouragement from friends and family in my move to Hawaii.

  • Grateful for coaches that have mentored me.

My gifts from God to be a blessing to Him and others that has required me to step out in faith…

  • Definitely it was an unforeseen move, yet I took a leap of faith and got out of my comfort zone by resigning from my full-time position to focus full-time on building my business (Innovative Leadership Solutions) while condo-sitting in Hawaii for 6 months. I did visit for a week this past January. At the time, I only knew one person on the island and God has blessed me with community over time. Grateful for my home church, Our Savior Lutheran, and to help in the church office twice a week.

  • Grateful for the opportunity to serve as a leadership coach, speaker, and consultant. My own transformational journey began at the Townsend Institute at Concordia University-Irvine. Now, I am able to serve clients in their transformational journey with God’s help.

Dependence

  • Continued gratefulness to Jesus, my Savior, and the unconditional love and grace from God!

  • Grateful for help with transportation. I do not have a car in Hawaii. Others have graciously given me rides, including a ride every Sunday for church. Otherwise, I ride the bus.

Interdependence

  • Grateful for the opportunities to have collaborated with co-workers serving as an event and store manager with Goldy’s Locker Room.

  • Grateful for my dad. He passed away this past February from a 17+ year battle with Parkinson’s. I appreciate his wisdom, faith, and guidance over the years. His faith in God definitely helped him persevere through his battle with Parkinson’s. He was blessed by others ministering to him. He was also a blessing to others as he still had his “pastoral hat” on through it all. Today would have been his 79th birthday. Through serving as a pastor and a professor at Concordia University-St. Paul, God gifted him to have much transformational impact on the lives of many.

How about you? There is still time! There is always time to be grateful! Take a 10-15 minute break from scrolling on your phone. Be specific and intentional when counting your blessings and then experience real, genuine, heart-felt thankfulness!

Are You Celebrating Your Dependence and Interdependence this Thanksgiving?

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On Thanksgiving Day, there is a shared tradition of celebration by giving thanks in an intentional way. We pause from the busyness of our lives. We prepare our hearts and minds by identifying our blessings. We gather with friends and family over a delicious meal. We express our thanks to God and others. We share our appreciation for one another. We serve others in a specific way. We praise God in worship with fellow believers in Christ (Ephesians 5:18-20).

On this day, we tend to focus more on being and less on the doing aspects of our lives (unless you’re cooking, working, parenting, or traveling). When we focus more on being, we become keenly aware of our humanness. We recognize our need for God and others. As much as we strive for independence and self-sufficiency, at our core, we are dependent on God and interdependent on one another. And that is a good thing. A very good thing.

Why? Because our sinful nature and society celebrate independence. This can be expressed through a tireless work ethic obsessed in striving to achieve the American Dream. We admire, reward, and celebrate others who put in the work (“paid their dues”) for their success, as if they did it alone. Sometimes this shows up as entitlement, a belief that we deserve things as a result of status, position, or privilege. This comes from a source of pride and self-centeredness which can diminish our motivation and focus to serve God and others. What is distinctive about an independence perspective is that we can deny or dismiss the influence and contribution of God and others in our life. At the same time, we do not need to deny or dismiss our own contributions to the blessings in our lives.

What is most challenging for you when it comes to independence?

There is nothing inherently wrong with being grateful for our accomplishments. Yet, nothing that we have, own, or receive is truly self-made. Others have contributed to who we are, what we achieve, and why and how we serve and vice versa. We are really interdependent on one another. We influence one another, for better or worse. We are interconnected in dependent ways. This is very different from co-dependency. Co-dependent individuals can enable, rescue, overly depend, and seek approval from others because they struggle with the capacities of independence; being a separate person. Their identity becomes enmeshed with the other person and is therefore really a shared identity between them. Whereas individuals in interdependent relationships don’t lose their identity, sense of self or separateness. In fact, as a positive outcome, each person mutually benefits from the relationship. What is truly special about interdependent relationships is the fruit. The harvest bears more fruit in our lives than what could exist or be accomplished alone.

Are you enmeshed in a co-dependent relationship? If so, what pulls you in?

What gets in the way for you to engage in interdependent relationships?

However, with God, we are dependent on Him. For in Him we live and move and have our being (Acts 17: 28 NIV). It is not an interdependent relationship because He doesn’t need anything from us. Afterall He is God. Yet, He calls us His child, friend, and a citizen and heir of His Heavenly Kingdom. God is the giver and source of everything, here and for all eternity! From this perspective, we are called to praise Him (Psalm 9:1; 139:13-14; 150:6; Colossians 3:16), live a godly life (Romans 12:1-2; Galatians 5:22-23; ), and share the Gospel with others (Matthew 28:18-20).

Our response to God, is a daily focus on stewardship and service for Him and for the sake of others. At the heart of this is receiving unconditional love from God and Christian love from others. Additionally, we express thanks to God and others for their love. The unconditional love of God, our Father and His only Son, Jesus Christ, our Savior, and the gift of His Holy Spirit is to be shared with others for eternal purposes. Eternal life (John 3:16) is the ultimate gift to give praise and thanksgiving to God. The best part, we cannot earn it . We are completely dependent on Jesus for our salvation and His Holy Spirit to come to faith in Him.

In what ways do you struggle to be dependent on God?

How will you celebrate your dependence and interdependence this Thanksgiving Day?

I encourage you to be intentional about giving thanks for the blessings in your life that specifically identify God and others as the source. This is not to deny or dismiss your contributions. Rather it’s an invitation to shift your focus on this special day.

However, if you want to take this to the next level, identify how you use your gifts that God has given you to be a blessing to Him and others that requires you to step out in faith. This requires courage to get out of your comfort zone to respond to a specific need God invites you to meet. And it’s all for His glory!

Take a step back from yourself as the source of your blessings and instead step into gratefulness for God and others with a humble spirit.

Will you do me a favor? Please comment how you celebrated your dependence and interdependence this Thanksgiving. I will. Will you?

Oh, give thanks to the Lord, for He is good; for His steadfast love endures forever! (I Chronicles 16:34 ESV)